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Henry Jay (Vince) Melito

June 23, 2020

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On Tuesday, June 23, 2020, Henry Jay (Vince) Melito loving husband and father of five children, six grandchildren and two great grandchildren passed away unexpectedly at the age of 66.  Henry was preceded in death by his father, James Vincent Melito, his mother Mary Martillaro Melito and his brothers John and Joseph. He is survived by his wife Theresa, his children Nathan, Sasha, Lisa, Sara and Sarab Jeet. He is also survived by his siblings, Mary Lynn, James, Carl, Donna, Debbie Paula and several nieces, nephews and cousins. One of his favorite days was when Walmart in Espanola opened. He was so excited he took his visiting daughter to see it. He had many conflicting diverse interests besides Walmart (Laugh out loud lol). He loved reading, engaging and talking about Existentialism, Buddhism, Sikhism, Nothingness, Physics, Quantum Physics, Taoism, Astrology, Natural Law, Political, Unjust and Inhumane countries and situations in the world. Finally Love. When you were in his presence, he was fully present with you and he deeply listened before he spoke. He fully acknowledged who you are and your own unique gifts and abilities and then he would make a cheesy joke (Smile) He was so loved, and he will be so missed.The family of Henry Jay Vince Melito has entrusted the care of their loved one to the DeVargas Funeral Home & Crematory of the Espanola Valley.


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